Hi, I’m KELLY.
I have been working in career counseling and mental health for fifteen years, but the majority of my experience has been in colleges and universities. I love working in higher education, and I credit my various roles on campuses in NY and NJ with sparking my interest in and love for working on career and gender-based issues.
As the former coordinator for a campus Women’s Center and a member of a group that created a campus Bystander Intervention program, I learned what abuse and assault look like and how different it is for each person. I have put together several violence prevention campaigns and facilitated psycho-educational groups to increase awareness and discuss instances of intimate partner violence.
Sometimes, what we experience as women isn’t necessarily violent, but it is discriminatory. That is something I have experienced firsthand, and it is why you can trust me on your journey to empowerment. I am a daughter, mother, wife, sister, and most importantly, I am a woman. A woman who knows what is like to be treated “less-than”, to be discriminated against because of her gender, and to struggle with self-esteem because of negative internalized messages. This pushed me to continue my education to become Dr. Kelly and focus my research on gender-based violence. This is also why I have completed multiple trainings toward the NJ Domestic Violence Specialist certificate and why I was a trained Confidential Sexual Violence Advocate in Essex County, NJ. I know that traumatic experiences (including but certainly not limited to abuse, violence, and discrimination) are often the root cause of feeling powerless, so I also became a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional to learn effective ways to work with survivors of trauma.
Some people might find it strange, after reading about all this training and focus on gender-based issues and empowerment, that I also work with individuals on their career issues. But here’s the thing – feeling unheard and being discouraged from setting big, high-achieving goals has an effect on our careers. It can prevent you from pursuing the job or career you really want; from asking for that raise or that flexible schedule you deserve; and from putting your career satisfaction and success before the needs of others. I see it. All. the. time. I love career counseling and think it is truly undervalued.
Part of counseling is being challenged on your assumptions, behaviors, and negative self-talk, and I will challenge you. That is what helps us to focus inward, reflect on difficult feelings and experiences, and make lasting change. But I also know, especially when working with people who have been silenced for most of their lives, that sometimes all you need is for someone to listen. I will do that, too.
EDUCATION
Licenses/Certifications
PhD, Counselor Education (2022)
Master of Arts, School Counseling (2008)
Read my research here: The Lived Experiences of Traditionally Aged College Women in Abusive Relationships
Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), May 2019, #37PC00681100
Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC), April 2014, #337049
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), April 2020
New Jersey State School Counselor, May 2008, #697127* (maiden name Kelly Kuehn)